eagles123, on 2014-January-05, 11:02, said:
This is the first time i've played with this player (he's not the same as the player on the ATB thread) and he is most definitely way better than me, i.e. I think he's ranked pretty high in masterpoints etc.
The number of masterpoints one owns is only loosely correlated with one's ability. I don't know whether other areas of the world have suffered the MP inflation that has afflicted the ACBL over the past 40 years (in reality, I think the inflation started even earlier than that).
We have, in NA, so many bracketed and flighted and stratified events that it is clear that the ACBL sees masterpoints as an important incentive to keep bad players coming to tournaments. The result is that some experienced players refer to masterpoints as attendance awards.
However, I think Bill's post is the likely explanation for your partner's comments. I suspect that the auction didn't work out well: either 4
♥ went down or he overbid, playing you for more than you had. That sort of thing often triggers partners into putting the blame onto their partner.
While I think you hold a minimum, I also happen to think that you absolutely had to bid 4
♥. That stiff club has improved your hand.
Interestingly, if the problem was that your partner bid again, with a poor outcome, he may have been blaming you in order to avoid acknowledging his own error. It is useful, when partner has made a call under pressure, to assume that partner has a minimum, since good bidders will stretch to bid with a fit. He should assume that you might have done so (as indeed you did) and any move by him is thus fraught with peril. It is he, not you, who should be thinking 'stay fixed'.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari