We severely stuffed up this hand tonight. Can you please tell me how the bidding should go?
One thing first, we are real beginners, please remember that with your reply!!
Someone had taught me a few days ago about reverses, jump shifts, and splinters by both opener and responder, so at the start of the session I communicated what I had learnt to my partner, who didn't like it, but I convinced him that I was positive that what I had learnt was correct and he very reluctantly agreed to do what I asked.
I passed, he opened a club, one of my hearts had gotten lost among my diamonds so I said 1S, he thought to himself (this is what he told me afterwards) "hmm, I'd like 3H to be a splinter but from what I understand, that will mean two suited and game forcing, so I'll say 2D" I found my heart, then, "if I say 2H he'll think I have five spades, better not do that, (we don't have 4th suit forcing) I'll give preference to his clubs" so I bid 3C, (I guess we have enough for game with his reverse and I have a heart stop, I should have said 3NT) he said 3H which I alerted as first round control, I said 3S for mine (forgetting to realise we obviously didn't have diamond control) he said 4S (I alerted as 2nd round control), I realised then we didn't have 1st *or* 2nd round control of diamonds (wondered what partner was doing bidding diamonds without the A, K or Q!!). I hurriedly tried to sign off 5C hoping partner wouldn't go 1 down, then he bids 5S, I wonder what the heck could he be asking??? and say 6C, all out.
You are probably laughing your head off right now. But we got doubled and went for either 1400 or 800 (dont remember which ... I forgot lebensohl on another hand and we went for the other penalty)

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