kenberg, on 2023-March-25, 06:48, said:
My daughter took Calc I in her first year in college and got an A. I encouraged her to continue but she explained "I wanted to prove to some people I could do this, and now I will take what I want".Bravo.
On her 40th birthday I asked her if she could still state the quadratic formula. She could, more or less. Ok, it's not calculus but I was impressed.
As for gender studies, a baby-sitter that I had when I was 9 or so got into bed with me and taught me a lot of what I needed to know. For some reason my parents never hired that baby-sitter again. Mabe she had not taught me enough about the importance of not saying anything.
Getting back to math and my own interests. At the end of my freshman year in high school my Spanish teacher warned me that "No girl wants to be Mrs. Einstein". She, Mrs K, was and remains one of my favorite teachers. Weird as hell, but very independent in her thinking. A few weeks into the school year she realized that many of the students were not understanding about Spanish grammar because they were weak in English grammar, so she announced that for the next two weeks we would be studying English grammar and we were to learn it and that meant learn it. Ok, no one would hire me as a proofreader but we were ready for Spanish grammar after that. I had had an excellent eight grade teacher so much of what Mrs K said was review but still useful..
And now back to gender studies. By the end of my hs sophomore year I had a car as did some of my friends. Old cars that needed work, and this work, on my car and on theirs, was done in the garage in my backyard. I like to think that if a girl drove up in an old clunker such as I and my friends had and said that she wanted t join in on the car work she would have been welcome. This was around 1954-56, and that might explain why this never happened, but I think she would have been accepted. I very much hope so.
Brief version. Many many people can happily go throug life without calculus. My parents happily went through life without algebra.
I have profound admiration for those skilled in areas I am not such as calculus and internal combustion engine repair.
I was required to take sociology. I had always avoided it as some type of squishy course unnecessary; turns out I loved it and learned more about things that are genuinely important- human interactions- than in any of the STEM classes.
We have developed to live in groups and depend on each other for expertise, whether collecting and disposing of trash or building houses. Sure, there are people who can do it all for themselves but they are few.
Most of us are in this thing together, and I don’t see anyone more valuable than another. I just try to do my share.