Posted 2012-March-27, 10:49
Yes, younger players tend to be wild. But they still tend to be "too cautious" - they bid on the wrong kinds of hands and the right kinds of hands, but also until they learn not enough of the right kinds of hands. But they *also* tend to figure out what I've been saying on their own - they see which is right and which is wrong, and settle in. But in general, yes, I'm talking about the older newer players.
Jillybean - it may be that you're "aggressive enough" and don't need to let the caution go; it could be that your partners are still too cautious, and you aren't being called out because you're about right for them. I'm going to assume the former, of course!
Now, the concept of "discipline" vs "aggression" - that's another story. If by "more disciplined" they mean "less aggressive", that's one thing; but if it means "more disciplined" - that's a separate (and valid) axis. I strongly agree with "be disciplined" - but that means "when you bid something, have what partner expects - even if it's ten-seventh and a card or two."
As an example, I have one partner for whom, if I open a weak 2 on 5 cards, it had better be KQTxx and out(ish) - all the points in the suit and a bad hand. I have another partner who doesn't care about the suit quality much, but it had better be 9-bad 11. I have yet another partner where, after I put down AKQJT, he'll ask "where's the other one?". Similarly, I have one partner that I will raise to game if they open 2♠, but with the exact same hand and another partner, I'll pass, confident we're making it - but not surprised if we don't! The key is that within our boundaries, we're consistent, whether the boundaries are "solid" or "really aggressive" - +170 frequently costs as much as -200.
One of the keys to "too cautious" is "when was the last time you went 800+? When was the last time (at matchpoints, at least) you gave up -530/-790?" If you can't remember, you're too cautious.
(of course, the other side of the coin is "when last your partner went for 800+, did you say anything stronger than 'hard luck, partner'?" If so, your partner's likely too cautious! But nobody here would do that, would they?)
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